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HEAL YOUR PAST TO LOVE AGAIN Coaching

There is such a thing as right timing for the right partner to show up in your life, but you need to do your part. If you haven’t done the work on yourself to clean up past hurts, disappointments, betrayals and defeating and sabotaging beliefs you won’t be ready for Mr. Right. Sure you could have a Mr. Right Now, but you’ve been there before and settling is no longer what you are willing to do.

You want REAL LOVE this time. A quality man who has himself and his life together. Someone who is your equal – who is looking to enhance your life while you enhance his. You are no longer willing to accept ‘fixer-up projects’, be somebody’s mother or banker and definitely you are done with deceit, temper tantrums, head games, and EVERY kind of abuse; from cutting comments to emotional, psychological and physical abuse. You are no longer willing to be anybody’s second choice, default or booty-call.  And substance abusers, man-childs and neanderthals need not apply.

There are over 3 BILLION men on the planet, and not all the good ones’ are taken.  If you are believing there are no good men out there then you especially will benefit from doing the work on yourself, because I have worked with many great men who are looking for meaningful connection, to love and be loved and to be a Woman’s Man (capital ‘M’) and I know they exist.

If you can’t see them it is time to take your ‘fear’ blinders off and get to the heart of what is really going on for you so you too can experience genuine affection, passion, consideration, respect and the love of a Good Man.

Maybe you have taken the steps to put yourself out there. You have agonized over your profile on Plenty of Fish™ or Match.com™ with no response or spent weeks chatting with someone, maybe even met or dated one or many only to be sorely disappointed or rejected. Or possibly well-meaning friends or family have introduced you to or set you up on blind dates with less than compatible men.

Maybe you even had hopes for some of the relationships you encountered only to find out they were married, in a relationship, bat-shit crazy, a liar, a stalker, just-in-it-for-the-sex, dropped you after the sex or simply stopped returning your calls for who knows what reason?

The love you want is waiting for you. And when you are honest with yourself – you do really want it. Even if you have doubts, have become cynical or jaded about love, mistrusting and protective of your heart, discouraged from past experiences, doubt your attractiveness, cringe at the thought of someone new seeing you naked or become exhausted just thinking about putting yourself out there again.

It can be scary to put yourself out there. Maybe the only dating you did was decades ago and you have no idea how to even go about meeting someone in this new age of technology. And maybe meeting someone online is not even the way you want to meet that special someone – you want to meet them the old fashioned romantic way where you bump into each other in a coffee house and there is a spark. Maybe you are thinking “That never happens!” but I have to say anything and everything is possible when you’ve done the work on yourself to prepare for those serendipitous moments. I’ve seen it far too often to discount it.

We attract into our life what we are ready…TRULY READY for on an emotional, mental, physical, energetic and spiritual level to receive. By doing the work on yourself you heal and grow yourself raising your confidence, integrity and clarity coming into right relationship with your Self. And it is from being in right relationship with your Self that you are ready to attract your right relationship and Mr. Right into YOUR life experience.

This program is right for you if:

  • You’ve been burned or suffered rejection in the past
  • You have put up a barricade to love to protect yourself from getting hurt again
  • You have adapted an aloof persona about relationships or given up on trying to find love while still secretly desiring love
  • You’ve experienced co-dependent, unhealthy or abusive relationships in the past
  • You’ve been in relationships where you felt used, taken for granted or taken advantage of
  • You’ve been in relationships where you felt invisible and that you didn’t matter
  • You’ve been in relationships where you had to mold or change yourself to be loved and accepted
  • You have experienced betrayal and have a hard time trusting
  • You have regrets from past relationships
  • You don’t trust your own judgement
  • You tend to compromise yourself and put other people and their needs ahead of your own
  • You have a belief that you can’t’ do life’ alone
  • You are waiting to be rescued
  • You’ve stayed way too long in relationships in the past that you had outgrown out of fear of change or being alone
  • There is a recurring pattern in your past relationships you are ready to identify, overcome and understand so you don’t repeat it again
  • You both want AND fear a relationship
  • You want love
  • You fear being rejected, played or used
  • You haven’t dated in a long while
  • The thought of intimacy is both exhilarating and intimidating
  • At times you can doubt your own attractiveness and inner and outer beauty
  • You are ready to overcome self-doubts and feelings of being unwanted or unlovable
  • You are ready to release old baggage to prevent it from contaminating your future relationships
  • You are no longer willing to sacrifice your Self, your needs or your dignity to be in a relationship
  • You want more for yourself than you have accepted in the past
  • You are no longer willing to settle
  • You are ready to be clear on your relationship needs, values and non-negotiables
  • You are ready to learn to trust in yourself and your ability to love and BE loved
  • You are truly ready for better in your life
  • You want to be strong enough to take that leap-of-faith into love again
  • You want to know what real love feels like
  • You are ready for happiness
  • You want an equal, mature partner who enhances your life not detracts from it
  • You are ready to learn your own worth and value and how to have it appreciated and respected
  • You want to know and have a healthy, mutually loving, respectful lasting relationship

This is a nine session program completed over three months and includes:

  • Focused 55 minute private coaching sessions
  • Between session deep inner self-work and supportive healing assignments
  • Private email access to me during office hours throughout the duration of your program
  • Additional support materials and recommendations to supplement your progress

This program is $1150 (three payment option of $400)

To ensure the highest quality of one-to-one support and coaching I only work with nine private clients at a time.  To apply to work with me privately please EMAIL ME HERE.

Once I have received your email I will be in touch with you within one to two business days. If all one-to-one private coaching spots are currently filled you will get the option of securing the next available opening or joining the “first to know” list to be notified if a spot becomes available.

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Complimentary Coaching Consult

If you have not worked with me before I recommend an initial coaching consult.

This is a no-fee 30 minute complimentary coaching phone consult in which you bring your questions, queries and challenges and I apply focused coaching techniques to bring clarity to your situation, uncover struggle and identify blocks to your fulfillment so that you can leave the session with renewed clarity for your next best steps.

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